You're a catch, but the guys can't see that!
Again, everyone's coming out process will be different, and you should only do what seems best for you.
At the beginning of every person's coming out process is a period where that person begins to question his or hers heterosexual identity.
"At first, the answer to that left me rather depressed.
Who would want to date (let alone be in a relationship with) a guy who first, couldn't figure out who he was for 38 years, second, was plowing through the emotional landmines of divorce, and third, was only available every couple of days and every other weekend (my custody schedule was insane at first).
If you recently opened up about being gay, you might wonder, ' What's next? In a perfect world, it would read like one of my favorite greeting cards, which is a plain, white card with an outside cover that reads, "So you're gay." The inside says, "That's all?