Most of us feel an immediate sense of dread at the thought of broaching the topic of "what are we?
" with those we're hooking up with or casually dating.
You craft your words carefully, so you don't have to provide any sort of context as to who he is.
What in the hell is this world coming to when it comes to dating? It's a secret little demon, sitting, waiting for sh*t to hit the fan.
Why did our generation start this talking stage as a prime source of dating? Confusion, stress, anger, love, torture and overthinking all come wrapped up into one big present, waiting for us to open it up before we even become official with someone.
The gap between sending and receiving a goodnight text is enough to make you question if it's as important to him as it is to you.
You wonder if you're the only little spoon in his life.
Actually, the more you speak to someone the more specific and detailed you can get.